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Brian Villanueva's avatar

I attended a small book signing with author Rob Henderson last year. Rob is kind of a less-right-wing JD Vance, similar life trajectory (foster care, Marines, Yale) and now writes on social psychology. One of the attendees asked Rob about birthrates. His answer was extremely interesting. He was kind of thinking aloud (paraphrasing):

"What if we don't have an instinct to have children?" [we all laughed] "No, no, hear me out. We have an instinct to have sex (especially men)." [we laughed again] "We've known for millennia that sex produces babies. And when that happens, we have an instinct to take care of babies (especially women). For nearly all of human history, these 2 instincts were sufficient to ensure reproduction of the species. Then we invented The Pill. Reliable, pharmacological birth control forces us to choose whether to have kids. And it turns out, we don't appear to have an instinct to reproduce. We may be the only species on the planet that doesn't."

Rob is onto something very big here, and it ties into exactly what you're saying in this piece.

I am a say-at-home father of 3 late teenage girls. I am a feminist in the sense that I want them to have every opportunity available to them that they would have if they were boys. But mostly I want them to have lives of meaning and goodness. What if modern feminism is antithetical to that? What if laws that encourage my daughters (and everyone else's) to compete with men render them spiritually impoverished and familially barren as individuals and produce a society that no longer sustains itself? I don't have answers for this, but increasingly, I fear that modern feminism is a collective suicide pact, a deathwork as Phillip Rieff would say. I don't want my daughters growing old in a deathwork culture.

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Fr. Brian John Zuelke, O.P.'s avatar

It's true that the return of a stable peasantry is neither likely nor desirable, but I do think we need to look at a fundamental issue that the English "distributists" of the early 20th C. had a better handle on: sufficient ownership of productive property. They were drawing directly upon early Catholic social teaching, and advocated not only "back to the land" solutions but also using technology to increase the possibility of individual ownership rather than decrease it. That's the problem with modern industrial economies today: "efficiency" (rightly criticized in this article) demands the continuous removal of the human being from labor, which likewise means not owning the means of production as well. The result is a bias towards centralization, consolidation, and automation. That's the fundamental problem. Are we surprised, then, when various firms seem "too big to fail," as in the late 2000s? We're headed that way again. Unregulated high-tech, big capitalism inevitably results in fragility, both for individuals and for whole societies. And nobody wants to have kids when they constantly feel economically insecure.

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